Archive - October 2009
Why Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt Were Never Meant To Be Together
By Linda - Your Psychic Guide
Jennifer Aniston was never destined to achieve happy-ever-after with ex-husband Brad Pitt because she is a ‘builder’ and he is an ‘explorer’, according to romance scientists (Linda says, ‘do such people really exist?)
People have one of four chemicals in their brain that moulds romantic chemistry, scientists explain.
In ‘builders’ like Aniston, serotonin is the dominant chemical, making them calm and cautious.
‘Explorers’, like Brad Pitt, meanwhile, are led by dopamine, creating a more spontaneous and risk-taking romancer.
And, yes, you’ve guessed it, Brad’s current partner Angelina Jolie (click here to read Angelina's psychic experience) is an ‘explorer’, too.
Professor Helen Fisher, an expert in the science of love, said: ‘It’s possible to scientifically understand why people partner better with certain types.’
Poor Jen - she was doomed from the very start!
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Posted on Thu 29th Oct 2009 13:59:10
The Secrets to a Successful Love Relationship
By Linda - your psychic guide
Would you believe that the key to keeping your love relationship alive is not expensive gifts or outrageous role-play; it’s sharing just four hugs a day?
A recent online poll of 4,000 couples revealed that regularly hugging your partner can help keep a healthy relationship.
Other tips to keep the romance alive included spending at least 22 periods of ‘quality time’ together every month, such as a long walk or dinner for two, and gifts from partners at least once a month.
Researchers asked couples who described themselves as ‘happy’ or ‘very happy’ how much time they spent together.
They found that couples looking for the secret ingredient to maintain a marriage should spend at least seven nights in together, with two proper dinner dates every month.
But you shouldn’t spend all your free time with your other half. The survey also revealed that happy couples strongly advise others to spend at least one evening a month away from their partner.
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Posted on Thu 29th Oct 2009 12:37:28
A Man Can Fall In Love In Less Than Ten Seconds!
By Linda - Your Psychic Guide
Working as a psychic for over 25 years I’ve heard lot of stories from my clients of falling in love with someone at first sight. In fact sometimes my psychic predictions suggest that this may indeed be my client's actual destiny. Whilst some may remain sceptical that it's possible to fall in love so quickly the news is that latest scientific research proves it to be true for men!
And the time needed for a man to fall in love at first sight is just 8.2 seconds, scientists claim.
The longer a man's gaze rests on a woman when they meet for the first time, the more interested he is. If it lasts just four seconds, he may not be all that impressed. But if it breaks the 8.2 second barrier, he could already be in love.
However the same is not true for women. They let their eyes linger on men for the same length of time whether they find them attractive or not, the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior reported.
Hidden cameras were used to secretly track the eye movements of 115 students as they spoke to actors and actresses. They were then asked to rate their conversation partner’s attractiveness.
The men looked into the eyes of actresses they considered beautiful for an average of 8.2 seconds, but that dropped to 4.5 seconds when gazing at those they rated less attractive. The female students, however, looked at the actors for the same length of time.
The researchers believe that men use eye contact to seek out fit and fertile mates. But women are more wary of attracting unwanted attention because of the risks of unwanted pregnancy and single parenthood.
Girls, watch out for quick eye contact from a stranger. Who knows where it may lead?
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Posted on Fri 23rd Oct 2009 14:17:33
Forget Your First Love Or Future Relationships Will Suffer
By Linda - Your Psychic Guide
Many of my clients contact me for a psychic reading because they can't stop thinking about their first love. And often this nostalgia for the past has a negative effect on present relationships.
Do you remember your first love? How you couldn't stop thinking about him and the little rush of butterflies you got whenever he called? Well, apparently it's time to forget all that and move on'.
New research has found that the rose-tinted memories we have of our first love can ruin all our relationships in later life.
According to sociologists, the buzz we experience with our first love can become an unrealistic benchmark against which all future relationships are judged.
So, it would seem the key to successful liaisons later in life is to forget the intensity and passion that you had with your childhood sweetheart.
Dr Malcolm Brynin, who put together a report called Changing Relationships, believes having a more realistic view of our old flame is the key to long-lasting happiness.
'Strangely, it seems that the secret to long-term happiness in a relationship is to skip a first relationship,' he explains.
‘In an ideal world you would wake up already in your second relationship. If you had a passionate first relationship and allow that feeling to become your benchmark, it becomes inevitable that future, more adult partnerships will seem boring and a disappointment.
‘The problems start if you try not only to get everything you need for an adult relationship, but also long for the dizzy heights of excitement and intensity you had in your first experience of love'.
He added. 'The solution is clear: if you can protect yourself from intense passion in your first relationship, you will be happier in your later relationships.'
If only it were that simple!
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Posted on Fri 23rd Oct 2009 12:20:27
Is Jealousy Destroying Your Relationship?
By Linda Preston – Your Psychic Guide
When love is mixed with fear it creates one of the most powerful emotions on earth: jealousy. And jealousy is, of course, both poisonous and destructive to any loving relationship.
Having worked as a psychic reader for over 25 years I've had many clients confide in me about their deep feelings of insecurity and worry that their partner may cheat on them.
And so often their feelings are just that ‘feelings’. There are no real grounds to mistrust their partner. But yet they allow nothing more than what is just an unpleasant, negative feeling to destroy a perfectly good relationship!
If you're plagued by feelings of jealousy you may begin to understand why by asking yourself the three questions below:
Why are you jealous?
When you're trying to handle your own jealousy, the first thing to consider is why you're feeling jealous. Did something happen to cause you to feel jealous, or are you struggling with irrational emotions rather than a current situation? Do you have trust issues with your partner? Or are your jealous tendencies left over from a previous relationship where you felt betrayed? Perhaps you have issues with trusting yourself that you are projecting onto the other person.
If your partner has done something that made you question their honesty, you need to address the situation.. Otherwise, take a look at the patterns in your life that have brought on your trust issues. Address these - and you'll be less likely to drag them into an otherwise-happy relationship.
How do you express jealousy?
The next step is to question how you're communicating your feelings of jealousy with your partner. Do you quietly bottle up your feelings - but secretly fume inside? Do you scream accusations and threaten to leave? Perhaps you even break down in tears, and beg them not to leave you – even though they have shown no indication that they intend to do so.
It's important to use positive communication techniques to let your partner know when something hurts your feelings and makes you feel jealous. Choose a time when you can talk in a calm, safe way, and use "I" statements such as "I feel jealous when you have a drink with your ex-girlfriend" or "I feel jealous when you talk with women online."
What do you do with jealousy?
The next step is to begin paying attention to what actions you're taking as a result of your jealous feelings. When you start feeling jealous, how do you react? Do you check through his emails and text messages? Maybe you throw a tantrum and accuse him of cheating?
Whether you realise it or not, reacting to jealousy in this way will only leave you with more fear and frustration. In a way, your unconscious goal is to find something incriminating, so in that sense you will only be "satisfied" if you find proof of cheating. And. of course, your fear will eventually drive him away, emotionally - which is the opposite of what you really wanted.
Stop the cycle right now - the more you act out of jealousy, the more you create that vicious circle of fear and frustration. Of course it's important to pay attention if your partner is acting suspiciously, but at the end of the day your jealous behaviour is not going to keep anyone from cheating - in some cases, it may even encourage it.
If you really want to let go of jealousy, you must also let go of the idea that you can control someone through love. Just as love is a risk, trust is a choice. Each time you decide not to pry , you make a choice to become a more loving, trusting partner.
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Posted on Thu 22nd Oct 2009 13:50:45
Ten Top Tips For Starting A New Relationship
By Linda - your psychic guide
In my psychic work I hear endless tales from my clients of broken relationships that have caused much upset and anguish to those involved. And many feel that they cannot ever see themselves being happy in a new relationship.
When we’ve been devastated by the end of a relationship, we may go into new relationships ultra cautiously as we are scared of being hurt again. But this can be a bit of ‘two edged sword’ Whilst being street-wise can help you avoid making the same mistake the next time, It can also make you so hyper alert to possible problems that you never feel relaxed. So I've put together some tips based on years of psychic experience for when you're ready to try again.
1. Let go of the past. It’s impossible to begin again whilst you still have one foot in the past and you are holding a candle for your lost love.
2. Realize you can make a choice. OK. Something bad happened. You're not a victim. You can and will move on
3. Learn who’s safe and not safe and how to be safe. Once bitten, twice shy. Learn the early warning signs that someone is not sincere and put up proper boundaries to keep people like that far away from your heart.
4. Work out what you really want. What do you want for yourself? What are you moving toward? Know what your values are and be clear about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Then, be bold about not settling for less.
5. Realize there are wonderful people everywhere. You may feel that your last partner was the world’s worse cheat but don’t forget the world’s also full of great people too!
6. Learn where to go to meet people who enjoy the same things you do. Pubs, clubs and online flirting/dating sites are never the best place to meet genuine people. Join a club and meet like minded people and also you will have more time to get to know someone and to make the right judgements. If you like to dance, take dance lessons. If you like to walk, join a walking group.
7. Hold off on the sex. Give yourself time to get to know someone before jumping in the bed. A recent survey by Sociologist Dr. Edward Lauman’s found that 85 percent of couples had known each other at least 30 days before having sex and 45 percent waited at least a year. And these were the relationships that had lasted the course.
8. Check out their “fit.” How are they around your family and friends? How comfortable are you around theirs? If your family and friends really don't like your partner are they seeing something that you're not?
9. Pay attention to their general behavior. Is this person “laid back” or is your relationship full of drama? Are there periodic temper tantrums? Regular blow outs! Take care if so.
10. Listen to your gut instincts. You have a built-in radar that alerts you when something is wrong. So, learn to respect your intuition and you will make the right choices!
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Posted on Wed 21st Oct 2009 12:13:29
Three Tips to Add Happiness to Your Day
By Linda - Your Psychic Guide
So many clients who contact me for psychic readings are feeling sad and depressed.
But we all have times we feel down in the dumps – as if everything is an effort. If you’re feeling this way why not try these three happiness tips to give your spirits a real boost.
Make a Happiness First-Aid Kit
Fill it with feel-good items: bubble bath, a gift certificate for a manicure, a funny photo of your kids, a CD of sounds of the ocean, a stash of chocolate—whatever you can count on to perk you up in the middle of a bad mood.
Be Helpable
If you’re always saying yes to others’ requests but no, thanks when someone offers you a hand, stop! Letting yourself be helped lightens your load and creates a makes the other person feel good too.
Stop the Psychic Vampires
We all have them in our life. Just a few minutes in the company of some people leaves us drained and depressed. If someone is being negative, ask her to tell you one good thing that happened to her recently. It may not alter her attitude permanently, but it can sure make her more pleasant to be around in the short term.
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Posted on Wed 21st Oct 2009 11:33:41
My Psychic Guide to Eight Common Relationship Mistakes
By Linda - Your Psychic Guide.
As a psychic of many years experience I hear many unhappy stories about relationships. And it's such a shame because much heartache could so easily be avoided. I feel that many people are unconsciously setting themselves up for failure without even knowing it. Look out for the warning signs with my detailed guide below.
I admit no one’s perfect (me included) but I feel that there's some mistakes that have more impact on your love relationship than others. Have you made any of these blunders lately?
Mistake 1: Trying To Change Your Partner
"If they love me enough, they'll change to please me." So many believe that they can and will change their partner. It's only a matter of time. They say, "If he loves me enough, he'll change that small thing to please me." But to your partner, that "small thing" isn't so small. Even if they do try to change to please you, very often they become resentful. "You don't love me for myself, but for the person you want me to be," they say. And it's true. When you try to change them they feel you don't really love them. You just want to turn them into someone to fill your needs.
Mistake 2: Feeling Like You're A Failure In Relationships
When some people see that things aren't working out they become depressed. They feel as though they're not loveable, that destiny is against them or that they will always be a failure in love. The truth is that you're not a failure. You simply have not yet learned that sometimes you have to think outside of the box. Once you learn and practice new ideas and methods, you'll be able to handle your life in a way you may have never thought possible.
Mistake 3: Believing You Have To Be "Good Enough" To Keep Their Love
Many feel they're not "good enough". Recently a client contacted me and said, "I finally found a really great guy but I'm miserable in the relationship. Everyday I worry that he'll find out who I really am and leave." This woman not only expected rejection, she actually did little things to bring it about. Soon she began to sabotage the relationship, finding fault with him at every turn. Although she didn't realise it, she did this to feel better about herself. The truth is we can never earn another person's love. The more we try the worse we feel. We must simply understand that who we truly are is entirely loveable. We must learn to make friends with ourselves.
Mistake 4: Rejecting Your Partner So They Can't Do It First
Many reject their partners as protection against being rejected themselves. They think that they don't deserve a relationship. They need to learn that they do deserve love in their lives.
Mistake 5: Believing Your Partner Should Read Your Mind, And Know What You Want "If he/she really loved me, they'd know what I needed and give it to me." Many believe that if their partners really loved them, they would read their minds. It wouldn't be necessary to have to actually ask for what they wanted. This is one of the most serious mistakes people make in relationships. Without truthful, open, communication no relationship can survive. Clear communication, however, is an art that has to be learned. And though you may feel that you have repeated yourself a thousand times, have your really communicated or nagged? Not only is it necessary to know what you want, and to ask for it clearly (without producing guilt) -- it is also necessary to be able to accept both yes and no.
Mistake 6: Believing It's Your Partner's Job to Make You Happy
Your partner is not there to meet all your needs. If he/she says no, it doesn't mean he/she doesn't love you. Some demands may be impossible to fulfill. It's not your partner's job to make you happy. Your partner should be here to grow and share with you. You must learn to make yourself happy, and make others happy as well. Love is based upon communicating, consideration and giving. First, however, you must be happy with yourself, before another can make you happy.
Mistake 7: Believing It's Hard To Get Him to Talk
"No matter what I do I can't get him to talk, and I don’t believe he is sharing all of his honest feelings with me." Many women claim they can't get men to talk. When time comes for intimate conversation men clam up, offer a few grunts and expect women to magically understand what's going on. Women feel shut out and men feel misunderstood. But, there is something women don't realise. Men want to talk. Under the right conditions, they'll talk all night long. Men desperately want to let others know what's going on. However, something else many don't realise is, men are more fragile than women. In order for them to talk, things have to be right. All that's needed here is to learn how to create the right conditions and what's necessary for a man to feel safe enough with you to talk.
Mistake 8: Are you addicted to drama?
Many couples keep relationships alive and exciting by fighting. When they see their partner upset, it reassures them that they care. Others have seen their parents fighting and this is the only role model they have. Some are addicted to the "high" they get out of fighting. A few crave the feeling of domination or control. Domination is not love. If it hurts, it's abuse, not love. Think about it.
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Posted on Tue 20th Oct 2009 14:25:00
Are You Emotionally Unfaithful To Your Partner?
By Linda - Your Psychic Guide.
Do you have a really special friendship with a member of the opposite sex even though you're already attached? Have you ever imagined yourself in their arms or even in their bed. If so, you could be being unemotionally unfaithful to your partner.
SO WHAT IS BEING EMOTIONALLY UNFAITHFUL?
Some people are involved in deep, intimate friendships with others and many couples may brush them off as harmless. But this type of friendship with someone who may otherwise be interesting sexually if you weren't already attached could in a way be classed as an affair and be equally as dangerous.
BUT IS THIS REALLY THE CASE?
Probably yes! An emotional affair is usually more intimate than any ordinary friendship - even a close one. And that’s why it could really be called an affair! But is really being unfaithful?
If you or your partner are so caught up with a ‘ special’ someone, so special that you wouldn't think of sharing the conversations or experiences you have together with your actual partner, you may be in deeper than you think.
As a psychic I would say that around a third of my clients struggle with this issue and are involved in some sort of emotionally charged relationship with someone outside of their main relationship. And it’s often someone they work with. After all most people spend several hours a day at work. Is it any wonder that they get a bit to close for comfort to a colleague?
In the beginning, emotional affairs can seem innocent. The feelings that you have are wonderful, and they can give you a real buzz. You have a lot in common with the other person. You can talk to them and feel really understood. You even begin to see them as your true soul mate. But they can be dangerous! You could end up falling deeply in love.
I have many caring clients who end up in this difficult position. They don't wish to hurt the partner in their main relationship, but the emotional affair has become their main priority. A key clue to whether you are emotionally unfaithful is: "If the person you would call if you had really great news - or needed support - is the person outside of your relationship, you're already involved in an emotional affair."
Many of my clients are otherwise very faithful, but this very intimate friendship does become an affair of sorts. As their spouses end up feeling a loss of a connection to their partner, they get less attention, and there is a sense of betrayal.
Some also report having looked up an old or lost love online just for fun. But then later, they find themselves quickly being drawn into nostalgia for the past totally forgetting why the relationship didn’t work last time around. They become filled with the desire to delve further into the possibilities of what they're feeling, imagining and wishing for. And that’s often when they call me for help . Sometimes they want to know if the other person involved feels the same way - or what the future might hold for them. Others feel terrible, and want to find a way back to their real partner.
So what drives people to connect so intimately outside of their main relationship?
Sometimes emotional affairs can keep a marriage alive, because they make you feel valued. At other times, these relationships can sew the seeds of what will become full-blown affairs. Some people find these friendships to be eye-opening lessons about what they need to ask for in their main relationships. But the downside can be guilt, confusion, and wishful thinking about a future that might involve complete intimacy can result. These relationships have the potential to lead to infidelity and divorce. That's a high price to pay for something that had appeared to be a harmless friendship.
Whilst to some they can be dangerous, they can also be enlightening and liberating. Look at what this relationship is telling you about your main relationship. Never ignore or dismiss an emotional affair simply because there's no physical intimacy. It's telling you something very important about what you need, what you want - and what you have to offer.
And although emotional affairs can open your eyes - you need to work on the relationship you have, or you may well lose it. It's up to you to decide if it's the effort. If not, you must move on.
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Posted on Tue 20th Oct 2009 12:39:32
True Life Near Death Experiences
The phrase "near-death experience" was first used by Dr Raymond Moody in his 1975 book, "Life After Life."
Many credit Moody's work with bringing the idea of the near-death experience to the public's attention, but reports of such experiences can be traced back throughout history. Plato's "Republic," written in 360 B.C.E., contains the tale of a soldier named Er who had an NDE after being killed in battle. Er described his soul leaving his body, being judged along with other souls and seeing heaven.
SO WHAT IS A NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE?
A near-death experience is when someone close to death or suffering from some trauma or disease that may lead to death, experiences events that seem to be impossible, unusual or supernatural. While there are many questions about NDE’s, one thing is certain - they do happen! So many thousands of people across the world have reported these strange occurences when at the point of death that they are impossible to ignore.
SO WHAT ARE SOME OF THE COMMON CHARACTERISTICS OF A NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE?
Feelings of calmness - These feelings may include peacefulness, acceptance of death, emotional and physical comfort.
Intense, pure bright light - Sometimes this intense (but not painful) light fills the room. In other cases, the subject sees a light that they feel represents either Heaven or God.
Out-of-body experiences (OBE) - The subject feels that he has left his body. He can look down and see it, often describing the sight of doctors working on him. In some cases, the subject's "spirit" then flies out of the room, into ¬the sky and sometimes into space.
Entering into another realm or dimension - Depending on the subject's religious beliefs and the nature of the experience, he may perceive this realm as Heaven or, in rare cases, as Hell.
Spirit beings - During the OBE, the subject encounters "beings of light," or other representations of spiritual entities. He may perceive these as deceased loved ones, angels, saints or God.
The tunnel - Many NDE subjects find themselves in a tunnel with a light at its end. They may encounter spirit beings as they pass through the tunnel.
HERE ARE SOME TRUE LIFE NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES:
DONNA'S EXPERIENCE
I have not shared this experience publicly in fact I am a little hesitant on sharing with you, the few I have told in the past say I was hallucinating or was delusional at the time. I guess that is why I have kept it inside me for so many, many years. Just in the past decade or so have I read and heard more and more people sharing there NDE with the public and revealing very personal details in books. I guess that's what prompted me to share this with you now!
Well, like I said it was l973 and I was in the hospital with a high fever. I had lost massive amounts of blood and had bad cramping of the stomach due to a miscarriage. I remember being in the emergency room and then they admitted me to a private room. When I was there and the doctor was examining me my heart stopped, my fever was off the thermometer, and he called in more doctors and nurses.
I distinctly remember starting to myself leaving my body and floating up to the top of the room. As I looked down there were five doctors, 3 nurses and IV's being put in both arms and a heart machine trying to bring me back! I just looked down on them and it felt so good to be up there that it was really quite beautiful and I really didn't care to go back. The next thing I recall was floating way up to a place in a bright luminous light that I have never seen in this world words could not describe the warmth, love, and peaceful feeling that was in this light. I was 17 then and I saw a huge 3 dimensional screen come up bigger then any movie screen I had ever seen in life! I just stood there watching my whole entire life pass before my eyes on this screen everyone in whom I ever was encountered with in my 17 years of life was on this screen every emotion and feeling was also played too! It was surreal! After that I started floating toward a tunnel it was very long but the light on the other side was unbelievable I was in so much bliss going toward the light the feelings I had felt was so loving and peaceful nothing like I ever felt on earth I really wanted to go and never come back here! It was pure joy peace and bliss but I was told I had to come back my purpose was not filled here. I started floating back next thing I remember looking down at my body with all those doctors trying to bring me back and fighting for them not too!! I could not move a muscle in my body yet as my spirit body was moving back into my physical body I kept saying no no don't do this to me let me go don't save me I was really hoping they wouldn't bring me back! I learned one thing when I was there I will always remember I guess it was my lesson or something I never really understood, but I do believe whole heartedly that the message was really simple about life but yet everyone in this world has a hard time trying to live there life that way for some reason I have seen in the decades I have lived since then.
The message was to love each and everyone and judge no one or nothing! Just that simple! I have touched many peoples lives over the years and I hope to continue too with this message I hope I have touched yours.
SAUNDRA'S EXPERIENCE
Hello, my name is Saundra and I want to relate an experience of mine that I am not certain is a near-death experience, because some aspects usual to NDE’s are missing. I have suffered throughout my life with severe illness, Lupus played a large part in my debilitation When I was a young, married mother of two, I believe I was twenty five at the time, I suffered a Lupus flare-up, for which I was hospitalized I was profoundly weak, but with another week or two of confinement ahead, I asked for permission to go home for a day I did go home against my doctor's counsel, and paid dearly for the foolish, impulsive act The symptoms that landed me in the hospital, intensified to the point that I could no longer bear the terrible, crushing pain in my spine and chest, and breathing had become so difficult that I knew, without doubt, that I would soon lose consciousness and ultimately, die! At that stage, I didn't have the slightest inclination to call the hospital; I needed a power beyond human ability! My then-husband, heeded my gasping cries that he call my minister, but he had to leave me because we didn't have a phone I did not see or hear him leave, for by that time I was no longer conscious There was no tunnel, but one minute I was lying face down on my bed and the next --I was in the sky! I don't recall actually leaving my body, but I knew I wasn't in it, I thought I was dreaming, and I kept wondering if I were dreaming, yet it was so real! There were big, puffy, white clouds surrounding me, and I caught glimpses of blue sky, "and I'm still wondering "What is happening to me"? I was becoming very frightened because I could not understand, and then suddenly, there was singing all around me, voices, many, and many, voices singing praises to God the most beautiful music I'd ever heard! And then I joined in their song, as if I knew that song always, and I really had never heard it before! I remember the joy and beauty of it all as if it happened yesterday! I saw no one, and I didn't go anywhere else, I did not look down and see my body lying on the bed, but I did see part of a giant white wing, and -then-I knew! I became panic-stricken, and I began to fervently pray; I told the being that knew was there and had to be God, that I couldn't die, "Who would take care of my children"?! And then a voice, not heard with my ears, but somehow within my head, said "Don't be afraid, you will not die, you will live, and you will live to be with your children " Love, as I never experienced, and couldn't even imagine, was in that voice And then I was in my body, I did not experience the return, I was just back!
KEVIN'S EXPERIENCE
I would like to share my NDE with you and anybody else who may be interested. My name is Kevni Greenwood I live in, Essex, England.
On the 30th November 1984, me and three mates went fishing on a small boat in the river Thames Estuary. It was extremely cold on that particular day. At approximately 3.30pm, me and one of my mates (Clive) decided to call it a day (we had been fishing since 7.00am) and pull in our fishing rods. All four of us thought it was time to head for home. Clive and I carefully walked up the deck to retrieve the fishing rods. This done, we slowly made our way back to the cabin. Suddenly Clive slipped on the icy deck, he grabbed hold of me - I thought he was joking for a moment, but as we fell of the side of the boat I realised the full implication of what was happening.
What seemed like an age passed (in fact only a spit second) and it took all I had in me to gain control of my senses. This done, I realised because of the water current we were drifting very rapidly away from the boat. Darkness was imminent and my mate Clive (who could not swim) was in a state of shear panic. I tried to hold on to him and calm him, but by now he was completely freaked out - he struggled free, not entirely to my dismay as by now self preservation was in charge. Bless his soul I hope he did not suffer too much. Because of my experience with the sea and water (I was in the merchant navy for 7 years), and being a strong swimmer, I mentally prepared myself for some heavy shit. Staying as calm as possible, I started treading water and steadied my breathing - thinking all the time, I will be saved! I had seen the distress flair go up by one of the other guys on our boat.
After drifting for 15-20 mins, I realised that my location was rapidly changing due to the under water currents and the shit I was in was getting very deep indeed. It was, by now, nightfall and getting extremely dark, I could see lights on both shores as I spun and turned in the water. I seemed to slow down slightly realising that the tide was turning around. This was about 1 hour after falling in - I was completely disoriented and I knew that although help was probably searching for us hypothermia was my biggest threat. So I continued to tread water to generate heat - I also knew it would be a miracle if I lasted more than 1-2 hours in that temperature. A large ship moved past me, some 3-400m away and I shouted for help with everything I had in me - but to no avail. At this point I knew the ship was not going to help or stop. I was thankful its rudder had not sucked me in - I started to cry, I can't quite recall what I was saying to myself, but it was along the lines of "please God, don't let me die, I want to see my Mum and I have got such a lot to do before I go". Then, I went very quiet and serious, slowed my breathing once more and prepared myself for what I thought was inevitably the end. I closed my eyes and after a short while, I started to feel warm and a distant light appeared in my minds eye. This light got slowly bigger and stronger and I began to feel really warm, almost hot. As the light advanced, I let it engulf me with its radiance and felt the feeling of upliftment. I felt no fear, pain or cold. It was very nice, safe and beautiful. At the split second that I was about to enter the white light, something inside me opened my eyes and shouted "NO! not yet! You have things to do". A few moments after the light had gone, a rescue helicopter with search light spotted and focused on me. A small dinghy with a father and son was nearby and urged me to keep shouting so they could pinpoint me - this they did. To cut my story short, they proceeded to help me on board and headed for shore. An ambulance at shore side took me to a hospital, 15 minutes drive away. I noticed the time, it was 9.30pm. I am extremely grateful to whom or whatever saved me, but I am very puzzled by the time-gap. It is as if I lost 2-3 hours, could anybody help me find them?
The event took me a long time to overcome, but since it happened, I have been slowly drawn to all aspects of spiritual matters and would be very interested if anybody could shed some more light on what may or may not have occurred that night. My friend, Clive Merton, perished - but I still feel he is with me at times.
TOM'S EXPERIENCEMy name is Tom and I'm 45 years old. I had an experience back when I was about 10 years old. I didn't tell anyone about it for a long time. I'm not sure why.
I was getting a ride from a friend on the back of his bicycle. He suddenly veered into traffic. I heard the screeching tires of the car behind us. The car hit the bike and catapulted me into the air. I was thrown into the other lane of traffic. As I was in the air I could see another car coming toward me. I thought "I'm going to die" and then I blacked out before hitting the street.
I found myself waiting in front of something that I can only describe as a black curtain. I did not have any physical sensations, but I could think and communicate. I wanted to go behind the curtain, but I had to wait for permission. There were three "people" behind the curtain and they seemed unsure about letting me in. I couldn't see what they looked like, just vague images behind the curtain. Then one of them told me "It's not time yet, go back."
I felt a rushing sensation, then my consciousness changed from what I had just experienced to what I was used to. I heard a car door slam. The driver of the car that hit me got out and asked if I was alright. The oncoming car had stopped in time. I felt a little shaky but otherwise was ok. I don't understand how I was able to hit the pavement without experiencing at least some scrapes or bruises, if not a lot worse.
MJ's EXPERIENCE
I was 19 years old when I had this experience in 1965. I had caught a nasty flu that was nearly epidemic in my town and before I could recover both my parents came down with it. There were just the three of us, so I took over taking care of them--this was flu with high fever, aches, head and chest congestion, nausea, vomiting, diarrhoea and all the nasties you can get with influenza. By the time my Mom and Dad were feeling almost human I relapsed and was incredibly sick--that's when it happened.
I was too sick to read or watch TV; I was seldom awake, just laying and hurting. I recall that I suddenly felt light as a feather and totally free of discomfort. I noticed that I was looking down at myself: I was laying on my left side, my hair tangled on the pillow, and by the shape of the blanket over me, my knees were drawn up to my abdomen and my hands curled up under my chin. I can recall every detail of that view from the pattern in the blanket, the light blue pillow case, to every tiny detail of myself and the room. Then I noticed that my eyes were closed and it dawned on me that I was seeing myself from above--seeing myself and my eyes were closed! I felt no troubling emotions, just the awareness that I was not inside myself any longer. I remember thinking, "I wonder if I've died?"
A cloudy gray mist formed around me that had sparkling white pin points of light within it and I seemed to float higher and higher when I saw a bright white light in the distance. It grew in brilliance as though I was approaching a star in a night sky, yet it didn't cause any discomfort to my eyes. At the same time I felt a pulling sensation from the light from my navel and also simultaneously I was overcome with the most wondrous emotions of love and joy and acceptance. It was so fantastically joyful, like a long awaited homecoming. I desperately wanted to get into that incredible light. I could not, however, get past the gray mist which had accompanied and surrounded me. It held me back.
The next thing I remember is I'm back in myself, in bed, feeling emotionally uplifted but disappointed to discover I was not dead! I felt a longing for that incredible Light. At that moment I totally lost my fear of death--I KNEW from the experience that death is not an ending, but a return or homecoming to where life begins. While I continued to recover from my flu relapse, I thought about what I'd experienced continually. I didn't want something I treasured to be ridiculed so I never told anyone until just this year when my father left his body and made his transition into the Light.
It was many years after my experience that I discovered the term Near Death Experience. I could personally relate to what I read about them--the Light IS real. We don't really die--our spirits just go home to where we're loved best and wanted most.
Posted on Sun 18th Oct 2009 20:28:40
Cher Tries to Contact Ex-Husband Sonny in the Spirit World
Singer and Hollywood superstar Cher has recently admitted that she has used mediums in the past to contact loved ones who have passed over to the other side.
One of those Cher has tried to contact is her ex-husband Sonny Bono, with whom she had one of her early hits "I've Got You Babe". Sonny tragically died in a skiing accident in 1998.
Although the couple had been divorced for some time they remained close friends and Cher has said to friends that she will always miss his friendship. After visiting a top medium, James Van Praagh, she says she was blown away with what she witnessed and has described her visit as ' an out of this world experience!' A little while after her visit Cher told a friend 'At one sitting I felt a touch on my shoulder and knew immediately that it was Sonny. It was his little trademark'.
Posted on Sat 17th Oct 2009 18:48:45
Liz Taylor's Near Death Experience
In 1961 Elizabeth Taylor died following an emergency operation. The doctors told her then husband, Eddie Fisher, that she was losing her battle and slipping away. At one point her heart actually stopped beating and the doctors fought long and hard to re-start it. But the plucky actress made a full recovery from this dreadful ordeal, and brought back with her vivid memories of a her own near death experience.
She revealed to her loved ones that she had been focusing desperately on a hospital light as she felt her life slipping away. The light slowly faded and dimmed like a well-executed theatrical trick and eventually it went to darkness.
'I died. Shall I tell you what it was like? Being down a long, dark tunnel, there was a light at the end and I had to keep looking at that light.' She told how the experience was beautiful but painful too. She remembers hearing voices urging her to come back and later she awoke.
She is not alone in this strange experience as many others have described similar situations and the common link seems to be how peaceful it all was.
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Posted on Fri 16th Oct 2009 22:03:06
30 Yrs After His Death Elvis Still Cures Sick People
Since the death of Elvis in 1977 people from all over the world have visited Gracelands in Memphis. And it's still today one of the most popular tourist attractions worldwide. Some people however, have made the journey for entirely different reasons. It's been said that sick people who have been to the shrine of Elvis Presley, have been cured from their ailments.
It's well documented that Elvis was a deeply spiritual person and throughout his life, his beliefs regarding the afterlife, were well known. One thing that perhaps not so many people knew about Elvis, was that he was reported to have healing powers.
His step brother David Stanley, has told that during a skiing trip to Colorado, one of his aides was said to have taken a dangerous fall and had hurt himself quite badly. Witnesses say he was lying on the ground screaming in pain. Elvis walked over to him, bent down and put both his hands on the aide's legs. Elvis sat there for a few seconds with his eyes closed, focusing on the injury and concentrating on his aide's pain. Suddenly, in great surprise to the rest of the group, the aide said that it didn't hurt anymore. He stood up and walked back to the lodge as if it had never happened. 'You had to see it to believe it,' said David.
Posted on Fri 16th Oct 2009 21:54:16
Kylie Believes in The After Life
Aussie pop icon Kylie Minogue admits to having strong spiritual beliefs.
During an appearance on The Jonathan Ross TV show some time ago, she was asked whether she still missed her one-time boyfriend Michael Hutchence.
Kylie announced that during her concerts at Wembley stadium (part of her 2002 Fever Tour), she could feel the spirit of Michael Hutchence with her throughout each performance.
Previously she has revealed that she has seen Michael of INXS fame since he has passed over.
He apparently occasionally visits her, to let her know that he is okay. In fact, she has told how he even came to see her on the morning of his funeral, following his controversial death back in 1997.
Posted on Fri 16th Oct 2009 21:45:38
Angelica Senses Father's Spirit On Film Set
Model turned Actress Anjelica Houston, otherwise known by her nickname Angel, is mostly known for her more offbeat roles in The Witches and The Addams Family where she played Morticia Addams.
Anjelica was raised by her mother, a Russian ballet dancer who was deeply spiritual and Oscar winning father John Houston, but it was her mother’s influence that opened her to the mystical side of life. Anjelica says about her deceased father ‘I feel he’s still around in spirit’ claiming that not only does she still talk to him in the afterlife, but she gets pretty quick answers from him too ‘I feel his presence all the time’ and has said he’s often with her when she’s on a film set working.
Anjelica’s spiritual beliefs have also lead her to be a great believer in Karma, the belief of a persons actions and conduct being abl
Posted on Fri 2nd Oct 2009 21:45:55
Superstar Tina Annoyed At Smoking Spirit
Superstar Tina Turner was reported as calling in a Psychic Medium, when one of her friendly visitors started to cause her some inconvenience! As the original soul diva, she puts her success and her ability to shine, to looking after herself and staying fit. So, when her friendly, ghostly visitor took to smoking a pipe in her home in Monaco, she was concerned that it might damage her vocal chords. The 69-year-old herself has never smoked and has never permitted anyone else to do so near her, least of all a ghost! Fears of the smoke damaging her voice led her to calling in a friendly ghost buster who told it nicely to go away! She discovered that she had five ghosts taking residence at her Monaco property, including this particular man who enjoyed smoking his pipe. He had lived in a shack on her land nearly 100 years previously. Apparently he was not too happy about the architectural changes that had been made to the property and was voicing his opinion in the only way he knew how!
Posted on Fri 2nd Oct 2009 21:35:27
Terrifying Night Singer Morrisey Saw A Ghost
MORRISSEY claims to have had a close encounter with a ghost on Saddleworth Moor, Manchester – the desolate area notorious for being the scene of the sadistic Moors murders of the 1960s
The former Smiths singer believes he saw the spirit of a troubled young man - naked apart from an anorak - when he drove through the area with friends one night in 1989.
Describing Saddleworth as 'the most barren, desolate, desperate place' he said he and his friends saw a frightened man run out from the moor, desperately pleading for their car to stop.
He said: "It was a boy of maybe 18 years. He was totally grey, and he had long hair in a sort of 1970s style. He wore a very small anorak and nothing else.
"He just emerged from the heather and pleaded to the lights, and we drove past because we all instinctively knew this was a spirit and because it had a history of being a place where so many bodies have been dumped and buried. It's not really the kind of place you hang around. We went to the phone box in the nearest village and called the police.
"We said, 'We have just driven down the Wessenden Road on Saddleworth Moor, and somebody has emerged from the side of the road and pleaded to the car. The police said, 'Keep an open mind'."
The next day, Morrissey drove back to the same spot to find it totally deserted, with no buildings or pathways within sight.
Gang
He said: "Was it somebody trying to ambush the car, so we'd stop to help and then suddenly a gang would emerge and take everything from us?
"Was it somebody who was being chased? Or was it the spectre of somebody who had been dumped on the moors many years ago?
"This person was not human, and it was very, very frightening."
The singer-song writer, who now lives in Rome, has spoken before about the deep impression left on him by the Moors Murders as a child.
The Smiths' first song, Suffer Little Children, was written about the killings by Ian Brady and Myra Hindley.
Morrissey, 50, also said in an interview with the Los Angeles Weekly that he wants to return to earth from beyond the grave, and is already thinking about who he would like to spook.
He said: "It would be fascinating if one could be a spirit and observe everything. There are a few people I'd like to... unsettle, shall we say"
Posted on Fri 2nd Oct 2009 21:14:38
The Key to Happiness
From the time the Romanies arrived in Britain in the fifteenth century, they protected themselves with a positive attitude. Whatever wasn’t good wasn’t even worth thinking about, and they focused on their search for happiness and talismans forecasting good luck.
The Romanies believe that it’s extremely luck to find a key. It means that you will soon be opening a door to success in love, marriage, or work, or even something very specific, such as getting a new car. No matter what form happiness is guaranteed.
But the good news is that you can still harness the good luck of a key without finding one by taking your own personal key and carrying out the following ritual:
With the key at hand, light a white candle. On a piece of paper, draw a door that will open to your wish.
Pour some candle wax on the drawing of the door and place the key in the wax, to weld the two together. Let the wax cool. Fold the paper around the key to form a neat envelope or parcel. Generously seal all the edges with more wax from the candle. Blow out the candle.
At night, toss the parcel into a fire, imagining as vividly as possible the door you are passing through. Pour all your energies into the flames and visual your wish being sent out into the universe. The spell has been cast. Don't dwell on your wish, because such thoughts drag it back to earth and sap its energy. Have faith. Believe in the spell and it may come into being in the strangest of ways!
Posted on Fri 2nd Oct 2009 15:20:29